(aka no bullets.)

• Last night I hit the wall rather badly, when I realized that juggling the divine miss m while working means that I’m working two full-time jobs simultaneously. It was not a pretty scene. I have not had more than 4 non-working, non-sleeping hours all to myself since the CGs were here in March and we went out. And come to think of it, that was hilarious fun but not time to myself either. I’d have to go back to November or December for that. Not Good. We will rectify this.

• On the upside, we finally back into our family routine that had been topsy-turvy since my trip the family visit. R and I went to dinner Sunday night and saw the X-men movie. I enjoyed it very much. He enjoyed it too but felt the plot had a certain committee-assembled feel to it.

• Teething is a bitch—miss m has been Jekyll and Hyde these days. She’s sleeping OK at night, but waking early and napping poorly. We are also transitioning to her own room which I’m sure doesn’t help. Right now the crib has such prime real estate for rolling over, but then she gets ticked off being there. Finally last night she realized that she could actually put her head down rather than persist in the pushup position (duh, kid!) and was asleep within minutes.

• Little she-who-is attended a birthday party over the weekend. It was an unstructured backyard thing with minimal Dora decorations, a swingset, and a kid-sized habittrail made out of big Maytag boxes and duct tape. Most excellent.
It was fun to watch her with other kids. She played with them some, then went off and played solo too. Her preschool teacher had told us that she was neither a leader nor a follower, just one who did her own thing, and I saw that there. She was not intimidated by the others, nor did she insist that they do things her way.

I also realized watching her that the depth of her right dimple is directly proportional to the amount of fun she is having. Teeter-totter and spinning around on the swing=deep dimple fun.

• Earlier that day, during worship, she convinced MaDear that she didn’t want to attend the program for three- and four-year olds because she was “feeling sick.” (She’s had a cough.) She told me about this at lunch and I deadpanned, “Oh, I’m sorry you’re feeling sick, I guess I’ll have to call M’s mom and tell them you won’t be at the birthday party.”

She responded, “I was PRETEND sick!”

• I haven’t found much time to write lately, aside from the sermon-writing. Must work on this. I suppose that will take care of itself to some extent, since I’ve been asked to do some more writing on the lectionary and the deadlines are in August and November.


9 Responses to “random non-violent dots regarding life”  

  1. 1 Keith

    When I hit walls, I tend to bash them over and over with my head.

    I make no progress, but at least it doesn’t feel good.

  2. 2 Shannon

    You know what great Rev? Your entries (such as this one) help me to be less lonely! Thank you for your honesty in the struggle!

  3. 3 spookyrach

    Good luck!

    (I wanna be pretend sick, too!)

  4. 4 ppb

    cough, cough…I’m sick, too.

  5. 5 Mamala/MaDear

    What, you waited for me to leave to hit the wall?

    I was talking to my mother tonight and we both admitted that we have cried big tears about my sister/her daughter dying but we can’t seem to just cry with each other together.

    Why is that?

  6. 6 Cheesehead

    Deep dimple fun.

    Want me some of that.

  7. 7 Jan

    Okay, I will trek to your home or the Dairy Queen of your choice and hang with your kids if that’s what it takes. I’m not kidding.

    Re: Dimples. One of the reasons I married my husband: good dimples with the hopes of dimples in the gene pool. I’m glad you have them in your gene pool too.

  8. 8 StCasserole

    Wish I lived close by and I’d give you some free hours for yourself.

  9. 9 CGAuntie

    Sorry about the wall, but I’m glad you realized you need time to yourself to do “you” things, not mommy, wife, or minister things. I so wish I were nearby. You would be having a lot of free time right about now!

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