It is a law of parenting, but anyone can play.
Kid #1 has a toy that Kid #2 wants, and the parent suggests Alternate Fun Activity for Kid #2 to do while she’s waiting…
What happens next?
Published by reverendmother 6 months, 2 weeks ago in Test
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Let’s see . . . this happened yesterday at my house and that time it ended up in a rolling-on-the-floor struggle for the coveted toy. Sometimes (after she’s made sure he’s suffered just long enough) Emily will surrender the toy to her brother to make him happy. (He’d never do that for her, however.) Once in a blue moon, the distraction technique will work - until the distraction becomes the coveted item.
So, how did your two handle it?
Kid #1 now wants to do distracting activity.
Kid #2 takes original toy to play with it.
Kid # 1 wants back toy.
Wash Rinse Repeat.
Nap time.
Kid #1 now wants to do distracting activity. Both kids are now fighting over distracting activity #2, and Toy #1 is discarded on the floor.
I have smart readers.
Did I mention that the desired toy was two empty toilet paper rolls that C taped together to make binoculars? My kids know a good thing when they see it.
Toilet paper rolls, paper towel rolls, and cardboard boxes - priceless treasures!
My offering was going to be what ppb said. At least that’s the way it always worked around my house when my kids were younger. (now they just argue over the same thing — usually the computer — and cannot be distracted… lol).
man! i’m late (work, what?) i would have nailed it.
Lets see my kids are 29 and 30, but my answer would be.. child 2 grabs toy from child 1. Child 1 screams and child 2 runs away with toy. Then promptly abandons toy and screaming sibling for the alternate activity. Man, some days I miss those days. But mostly I pine for grandchildren. LOL
At my house, the twins have a yelling fight; then, twin #1 (a.k.a. The Pacifist) says, “Oh, just take it”; twin # 2 (focused-like-a Laser Boy) pumps fist in air; mom (She who must not explode) pours a drink. It was bad when they were 3. It’s mind-numbing now that they’re 15.
Mary, same thing happens with grandchildren!
With two sons, the senario you mention helped me better understand how wars begin.